No matter how good your relationship might be in other ways when it comes to the bedroom, sometimes things can be lacking. This is especially true if you’ve been together for a long time and your sexual adventures have become pretty stale as everything is always the same. You must spice things up a bit every now and then, otherwise you might lose the spark in your relationship. With that in mind – and because it’s a fun thing to do – here are some new things you can try in the bedroom. You might just discover something new about yourself or your partner that will surprise you.
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When was the last time you tried a new sexual position? If you think you’ve done them all, think again; there are 64 different positions in the Karma Sutra, and even if you’ve done them all, that’s enough to give you plenty of variety in the bedroom. Most couple has just one or two positions they automatically go to, but this can make sex boring, and when sex is boring, it’s unsatisfactory.
Although you might feel uncomfortable at first (physically and mentally), trying new positions is fun and exciting, and you might find something other than the tried and tested one you always use. Find one that’s good for both of you, and you’ll be surprised at how great sex can be.
Adding some adult toys into the bedroom can really change your sexual habits for the better. You don’t even have to go into a store to buy whatever it is you’re interested in; thanks to online stores like wetforher.com, you can browse discreetly in your own home. Why not make a night of it, when you and your partner look at the website and choose some new fun items between you?
There are toys available for same-sex couples and for heterosexual couples, so don’t feel you have to restrict yourself or miss out. Some won’t be to your taste, but half the fun is in experimenting, and it can make all the difference when you safely incorporate these things into your sex life.
The idea of sharing fantasies can be worrying to some people; they might think they’ll either be laughed at when they share their own fantasies, or they’ll find out something they don’t want to know about their partner when they hear theirs.
The truth is that sharing fantasies is much more freeing and much less scary than you might think at first. You can go into as much detail as you like, so if there are things you want to keep just for you (as there should be in any relationship), then don’t mention them. However, by telling your partner as much as you’re comfortable saying, you might open up new avenues in your bedroom activities that you had only ever thought would be in your imagination. Remember, though, it’s only fair to act on both partners’ fantasies, so make sure you take turns.